In my 20's, I was ignorant to the ways of life, the lies of men, and trusted with all my heart. Never met a stranger I didn't like and my friends were considered my family. 

In my 30's I learned no one can be trusted, especially the men in my life and I quit dating, food was my only friend and started to hate men.

In my 40's I have learned that there are good guys still out there and I happen to have found the best of the best (okay, he found me).  Now I hope that I get to spend the next 40 years thanking God for each and every second I have with him.